From men who have affairs, to those who are addicted to pornography, sexual addictions are particularly malignant and destructive to marriages.
While sinful people may use sex in sinful ways, married sex is not sinful or shameful. To overcome the triggers of past abuse, look for reflections of Jesus in your spouse.
And so I did. Surrendering my hurt, my wisdom, and my husband to my Father wasn’t easy, but it was freeing. And healing. Healing for me and our marriage. The more I released my grip, it seemed, the more of God’s power was unleashed within me.
If marriage is what we say it is, why does its foundation sometimes seem so cracked? How do we explain the brokenness, the divorce rates, and the struggles we see all around us in real life?